Gifts are a traditional way to say I love you and to thank someone. A gift that is the result of genuine thought is not one that costs a lot of money, but it is one which is meaningful for the person who receives it and sincere in your intention towards it.
With a thoughtful gift, you prove to her that you are not only thinking of her but that you have paid attention to her passions and likes, and what’s more, you have given a bit of her a rightful place in your life. That makes her feel truly seen and valued.
First, think about her personality and how she stands out. Is she a lover of a particular author, artist, sport, activity, or book? For example, a book by her favorite writer, a piece of jewelry in her favorite color, or some goodies like gardening tools or art supplies can stay close to her heart. The bottom line idea is to make it personal and really meaningful as a gift.
She would be very touched if you gave her a gift “just because”, some days a gift that is unexpected and not associated with any holiday stamps in her life. These eccentric touches are lovely because they show you aren’t a ho-hum bummer and that you like to think outside the box.
In this case, a self-made item like a photo frame with one of your shared pictures or a scrapbook as a memory catalogue would be so much more special and personal than anything mass produced could ever be.
It is very important to have a nice touch when you give a gift. A small note that says why I picked it or tells a sweet memory associated with it could do wonders to the emotional impact of the gift. Being thoughtful when giving gifts is not about money; it is about connecting. It is about telling each other, “I like you, and I take time to show it.”
Literally, a gift is like a physical picture of the love and attention you give each other. As time passes, she will always look at it strolling down the memory lane thinking of the efforts and care you put in making her a special person. It is a sign that you are not only close but that the relationship is full of colors that feed you with happiness.