Curious how to get her to notice you. Getting someone’s attention isn’t a matter of a bold move or a grand plan — it’s a matter of the energy you give off and how you make others feel. That’s important because women are usually attracted to honest, confident and positive energy above everything. While everyone has their preferences, there are traits and habits many find generally desirable.
Whether you want to strengthen an existing relationship or hone your confidence while dating, working to enhance these core qualities can get you closer to making a deeper connection. Below are 10 ways to become irresistible to women.
1. Just Be Yourself
All deep connections are rooted in authenticity. Attractiveness is more than skin deep; it comes from how sincere you are in your actions, discussions and interests. False-pretences can be a good deception for a moment, but it will unravel as the reality comes to show in due course.” Women (and people in general) love trust, and trust begins when you feel good in your own body.
Being yourself doesn’t mean immediately sharing every detail of your life; actually, developing trust is an incremental process. The trick is to showcase your authentic self with grace. Be silly, weird, out of place, and uncompromising about your interests and opinions. These elements bring authenticity and individuality, which are not replicable.
A real connection happens when your values and personalities mesh naturally. When you are unapologetically yourself, you allow other people the opportunity to admire you — the actual you and not some performative version. Even if some people don’t mesh with your personality, that’s fine; genuine bonds aren’t compulsory.