Recognizing their accomplishments, even small, everyday victories, is an effective means of reinforcing positive ties. Showing happiness for their achievement and expressing pride engages you both in a supportive cycle of appreciation.
We all want to know that we are appreciated and acknowledged and celebrations can enhance the feeling of belonging in a relationship.
Celebrations do not always require big events. Outreach may also be as simple as sending a heartfelt note, a small gift, or lines expressing, “I am so proud of you and what you have accomplished.”
Remembering and acknowledging major events, whether it’s a birthday, a new job, or working toward a personal goal, takes thought and effort and goes a long way.
Just as crucial is embracing growth and celebrating progress, not just outcomes. Someone is not always going to win, but recognising the work and dedication someone has put in to get there in the first place is, in my humble opinion, far more important than the result. This validates the work they do, as well as encourages them to keep achieving their goals.
Keep a track of important dates on your calendar or set reminders. Do not miss a big event. They really develop the connection and demonstrate that the other person matters to you and so does their happiness and success.