Good communication is one of the backbones of any healthy relationship. Being confident in how you present yourself not only helps you articulate your thoughts but it is equally a sign of self-assurance, a quality many people find attractive.
Communicating effectively isn’t just about the words you say; your tone, body language and timing are as important as what you say.
Confidence doesn’t mean monopolizing the conversation or having just the right thing to say all the time. It’s about speaking clearly and honestly yet respecting the perspective of the other person.”
Listening is as important as self-expression; communication is a two-way street. Leave room for others to speak their mind, and be genuinely interested in their response. This allows for an equalized contrast where both sides feel appreciated.
That said, no harm in taking a second to collect your thoughts if you’re not sure. Taking an extra moment to consider your words demonstrates concern in what/how you’re responding instead of a simple reaction to mute the awkwardness of silence.
The weekly and well-applied practice of this eventually brings harmony and respect.
Tip: If you are working on confidence building, start small — share your opinions in low-pressure environments. Be mindful of the correlation between tone and body language with what you say to create a reliable and authentic experience for the recipient.
The more you practice clear communication, the easier it becomes.