Heart-to-heart conversations are a basis of love in a relationship that create intimacy on an emotional level. Taking a moment to have open, honest, and valuable talks with her is your way of demonstrating the fact that you desire to bond at a higher level with her and thus strengthen your relationship.
Begin by making sure that a safe and comfortable setting for your conversation is created. Pick a quiet, distraction free spot where both of you can openly express your thoughts.
Come at the conversation with a sincere desire on your part to understand her thoughts and feelings and clarify that this is her time to be the focus of the talk.
Indeed, ask her what she thinks about her day, the dreams she has, or anything she has in mind. Be an active listener and give her your full attention, look at her in the eyes and use both verbal and non-verbal cues to let her know you are engaged.
Do not stop her mid-thought or jump in to suggest your answers, sometimes she just wants to be listened to.
Be open to disclosing your own feelings and ideas too. Expressing yourself builds a trusting relationship and an environment for intimacy, which makes her feel that you are comfortable discussing anything.
Go over some of your ambitions, or fears, or merely state the things you adore about your relationship. This mutual sharing creates a deeper emotional connection.
Heart-to-heart conversations may not necessarily be restricted to serious subjects. They can be as well as enjoying the fun times, getting nostalgic about the moments you felt absolutely happy, and even contemplating the future. The main thing is to be your true self and to show each other respect.
By devoting your time to sincere talks, you’re telling her that she is important and that her thoughts and feelings are a priority in your relationship. The result of it is that it becomes a fundamental factor in building trust, understanding, and love in your relationship.