For a species that evolved as social animals, we indirectly gravitate toward people who are liked by others. Social proof is a psychological phenomenon where people use the behaviour and actions of others to help determine their own actions or the value of something.
When it comes to the male/female dynamic, a huge turn on is demonstrating that you are associated with people who are respected, interesting, diverse.
If all the other person sees you in social is talking and laughing with a group of friends (particularly if there are any women there), it shows them you are social, available and popular. It also indicates you are not available but needed. People are naturally drawn to others who have positive regard from others.
Social Proof – especially in this case shows you have the qualities that make other people want to be around you – and this includes women who probably watching you.
Your friendships, however, need to appear real. Get people you want to hang out with around you, and do not craft a persona for someone to want you.
The friends you make and even the people you sometimes tolerate because you have to, they influence what people think about you, and they all breathe a sense of trust and realness into you!
Women will remember how you are with your friends — whether you are the party starter or you are just around the good vibes all the time.
Moreover, demonstrating the ability to make others laugh, have a good time, and be a positive influence in group dynamics makes you more attractive.
Out of the numerous reasons that they make such a positive societal impact, the undeniable reality is that positivity is contagious and these people work wonders with how you feel and present yourself; you radiate confidence and vitality.