The cornerstone of all good relationships is spending quality time with in person. Taking time to be present with a person in a real way shows that you appreciate the opportunity to spend time with them and that you care about this relationship. Reconnecting is not only about spending time together, but about how well you interact with each other.
Doing things that you both like will help you stay together and create memories together as well. This might be preparing a dinner, going for a stroll, playing a game, or just sitting down to talk; anything that creates shared experiences will strengthen your bond.
This process requires full presence on the part of both of you, set down your phone or any other distractions or things you might have to do and focus on each other.
We all have busy lives, but even little bits of quality time can make a difference. Simple things like catching up for a quick coffee break, watching a favourite tv show together, or regular phone calls or text check-ins can ensure that the relationship remains alive and wins.
Tip: Make an effort to schedule out some quality time. Needless to say, don’t make it elaborate, just more of what we put into it as the thing counts. Even the simplest of kind gestures can go a long way for someone.